Married Life

 This past August, my wife and I celebrated 27 years of marriage, and we can honestly say – it was all God. We endured difficult moments in our marital journey, but He brought us through those hard times with His grace and strength. We know the Lord joined us together, and He has a plan for us as a couple, and with His perfect timing, reveals what He has in mind for us. I can honestly say we trust Him with that plan – but I know my wife and I would look up and ask – ok, what? Not in questioning our marriage but in those times when life gets overwhelming. Have you ever had those moments, especially those tough times, where you wonder what God is doing? Of course, we all will go through times of trouble, not just married couples.

Those who have been in church long enough have heard the words of Jesus – “In the world, you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world (John 16:33, ESV). I realize our Lord was speaking comfort to His disciples in the final days before His death, but this is a beautiful truth we can claim as Christ-followers. He has overcome the world. So, my encouragement to each of you (especially our married couples) – hold on; Jesus has you. Start with being one with Christ (Romans 6:5), and remember you are to be one with your spouse (Ephesians 5:22-33). Spend time with God. Spend time with your spouse.

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